People secretly want to be the center of attention. They want others to notice: their style of dress, body structure, what they are knowledgeable upon, their possessions....etc.
You learn more watching everyone fight over a few seconds in the spotlight. Then by idly waiting for your chance to shine.
Look at the people on your left: You see that group of females speaking and how one female is dominating the conversation. Although her friends are laughing or nodding in agreement. Notice whenever she looks away, the one laughing and nodding her head the hardest has a scornful expression.. wishing her friend would STFU so the attention can be on her.
Look to your right: You see that couple on a date. Notice, although the female seems to be intently listening to the male, she rolls her eyes to the side slightly, checking out others. Wondering, does anyone besides my S/O, who seldom compliments me, notice how beautiful I am? He doesn't make me feel wanted.
Look straight ahead: Notice the man wearing black and gray keeps brushing unseen lint off his clothes? If you look carefully, he's flicking his wrists, showing off his watch & ring... in an attempt to show others what he has, while luring in a female who believes his possessions are more valuable than he is.
Look to your left: A group of people are discussing worldly affairs. You have one individual, who has no idea WTF everyone else is talking about. So they laugh loudly at inappropriate moments. You'll have a female who'll laugh seductively, while touching someone's arm simultaneously sticking out her chest - knowingly. You have an individual who believes they are above such trivial conversations, yet stays to listen. Speaking negatively on 99% of the statements to show their intellectual contempt of others, and the brilliance they believe is lacking.
By watching others: you'll notice unseen hatred, the desire to be loved, low-self esteem, lack of insight, seduction, disgust, narcissism... etc.
All of which you see, is unspoken. Yet speaks loudly, if you simply pay attention.
When you’re at the forefront, you miss the importance of what you’re surrounded by. The individuals you interact with & watch… teach more about life, then you're capable of experiencing in a life span.
The observation of others, is an overlooked necessity.
