Real Love - L.et O.thers V.oluntarily E.volve

The Absence Of Knowledge 

Creates The Image Of

Perfection 

 A Mature Person 

Has The Integrity 
To Be Alone

And when a mature person gives love, 
she gives without any strings attached to it: 
she simply gives. 

And when a mature person gives love, she feels grateful 

that you have accepted her love, 

not vice versa. 

She does not expect you to be thankful for it 

– no, not at all, she does not even need your thanks. 

She thanks you for accepting her love. 

And when two mature persons are in love, 

one of the greatest paradoxes of life happens, one of the most beautiful phenomena: 

they are together and yet tremendously alone, 

they are together so much so 

that they are almost one. 

But their oneness 

does not destroy their individuality; in fact, it enhances it: 

they become more individual. 

Two mature persons in love

help each other

to become more free. 

There is no politics involved, 
no diplomacy, 
no effort to dominate. 

How can you dominate 
the person you love?

 Just think over it. 

 Domination is a sort of hatred, anger, enmity. 

How can you even think of dominating a person you love? You would love to see the person totally free, independent; you will give him more individuality. 

That’s why I call it the greatest paradox:

 they are together so much so that they are almost one, but still in that oneness they are individuals. 

Their individualities are not effaced; they have become more enhanced. The other has enriched them as far as their freedom is concerned. 

 Immature people falling in love 
destroy each other’s freedom, create a bondage, 
make a prison. 

Mature persons in love 

help each other to be free; 

they help each other to destroy all sorts of bondage's. 

And when love 

flows with freedom 

there is beauty. 

When love flows 
with dependence 
there is ugliness. 

Remember, freedom is a higher value than love.

So if love is destroying freedom,

it is not of worth.

Love can be dropped

freedom has to be saved;

freedom is a higher value

And without freedom 

you can never be happy, 

that is not possible. 

Freedom

 is the intrinsic desire 

of each man, each woman 

 So anything 
that becomes destructive to freedom, 
one starts hating it. 

Do you hate the man you love? 

Do you hate the woman you love? 

Your hate; it is a necessary evil, you have to tolerate it. 

Because you cannot be alone you have to manage to be with somebody, and you have to adjust to the other’s demands. You have to tolerate, you have to bear them. 

 Love

to be really love, 

has to be being-love, gift-love. 

Being-love 

means a state of 

love. 

When you have arrived home, 

when you have known who you are, 

then a love arises in your being. 

Then the fragrance spreads 

and you can give 

it to others. 

 How 

can you give something 

which you don’t have? 

 To give it, 
the first basic requirement
 is to have it. 


https://www.amazon.com/Science-Love-John-Baines/dp/1882692004

It's Been Eight Tuesdays

Two Months 

Without Seeing
My Favorite Smile
Crack Across Your Lips...

It Was All Us
The Real Me
And The Best You

Truth Earned Trust
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View 

They Trying 

To Fake 

Everything 
You Came

Natural With

I Adapt
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I'm Focused 

On Forever

What Comes 

After The

Pics

I Can Love You

To 
Infinity

Or

I Can Love You

Through

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